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Forget about the price tags?
My first realisation that I had a price tag on my back was in 1991 when I said my goodbyes to a (false) biological mother and extended...
Widya Wisata
Nov 7, 20244 min read


23 days
I had an interesting interview last Friday for the upcoming Dutch book 'Children of their time' in which 17 Indonesian adoptees are being...
Widya Wisata
Oct 26, 20243 min read


What makes me Indonesian?
Tell me, what makes you Indonesian, Dutch or any other national? Most people look at my face and consider me almost immediately...
Widya Wisata
Oct 18, 20242 min read


If you were the trafficker...
Dear Mom, A few years have passed since my search with BBC Indonesia. For a short while, everyone seemed to know our story. However, I am...
Widya Wisata
Oct 5, 20243 min read


Letter to my biological mother
The Hague, June 2020 Dear Mom, When I close my eyes, I remember... I remember you taking care of me with great warmth. I remember the...
Widya Wisata
Jun 15, 20234 min read


Foggy brain
My identity crisis started in high school but hit me like a bulldozer during my university years. My brain started getting foggy. I was...
Widya Wisata
Oct 15, 20213 min read
An adoption tale turned sour
Last year when I published my story on Twitter I received leads which had taken me several months to investigate. It was a difficult...
Widya Wisata
Sep 17, 202114 min read


Solving a puzzle
For years it was chaos in my head, one which I was desperately trying to control. I failed miserably and the result was the birth of a...
Widya Wisata
Jun 12, 20214 min read


Imposter Syndrome
From an early stage in life, I learned to adapt myself to my surroundings. This showed for the first time when I was taken by a woman for...
Widya Wisata
May 24, 20215 min read
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